Psst.... Hey guys I have something for you here.Tired of those painful breakups? Not happy with ou relationship right now? Do you want a change? Well here's a secret to keep relationship alive.
Every relationship is unique and special. All relationships undergoes misuderstanding, jealousy, dishonesty, losing trust and all of that kind a stuff that would lead to what we call as breakup. Well don't be too alarmed if you're just a first time lover because this is pretty normal. You must have heard of "LQ" the lovers quarel thing? That's basically it. But we ask ourselves, what's the reason why every relationship goes through it? Can we prevent it in anyway we can possibly think of?
Well let's review from the top....
Every relationship is unique and special. All relationships undergoes misuderstanding, jealousy, dishonesty, losing trust and all of that kind a stuff that would lead to what we call as breakup. Well don't be too alarmed if you're just a first time lover because this is pretty normal. You must have heard of "LQ" the lovers quarel thing? That's basically it. But we ask ourselves, what's the reason why every relationship goes through it? Can we prevent it in anyway we can possibly think of?
Well let's review from the top....
1. LOVE YOURSELF - Before you love somebody else you must first try to love yourself. Understand who you are and accpet who you are. Get to know yourself first. You will be surprise how you don't know yourself quiet well. We usually don't think of this we just immediately bump into a relationship that's why relationship has conflicts.
2. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER - You know what,this is so the best thing that a two lover can do. Spend time to get to know each other. Hang out some place that both of you would have fun. Just simply act like your just friends. In the end it will be worth it.
3. TRUST - A must have in every relationship. Once a trust broken it is sure hard to gain again sometimes even impossible. Trust they say is earned not given.
4. HONESTY - It is a simple tool in every relationship. Honesty can sometimes be hard to follow. For our excuse no one is perfect. But that is just a stupid excuse. If you really want that your relationship will last long start taking action, start from being honest to your partner.
5. THE DO'S AND DONT'S OF YOUR PARTNER - Who doesn't agree when you tell your partner that they hate that thing and they like that thing and your partner just went deaf at you like she/he can't hear you. You know yourself your partners do's and dont's. So why would you still do it? That's what usually causes "LQ" Because us ourselves are so ignorant.
6. UNDERSTANDING - Seem ordinary eh? But we tend to forget. That's the truth. Try to understand your partner in the first place because once you understand him/her that means you accept for who he/she is.
7. ACCEPTANCE - There is no single relationship that is perfect. Don't think that your partner can give you everything you want. Jezz! Your partner is not your fairy Godmother or fairy Godfather. Try to accept his status in life, accept who he/she is and please don't expect to much. It's the love that is more important.
8. LOVE - Seems korny? Well it's just part of a relationship. In the first place there will be no relationship if you don't love each other. Try to evaluate if he/she i really the love of your life.
2 comments:
you're funny! I'll be keeping up with your blog. I haven't the time now to finish this one here (I'm at work :P) but I will when I sign back in later. Mine is just as crazy.. Now I feel better to be young and nutty. :) With our life experiences and whirlwind ever changing conundrums maybe we'll change the world, one sidekick at a time!
Talk to you soon!
Thanks so much for appreciatiing my blog. A little secret to tell you all this time that I wrote blogs you are the first one that ever made a comment on my post. :P
It's actually a personal experience of mine about my past relationship and my current relationship that it seemed to don't work at all. So I decided to think out of the box a little and see what's wrong and maybe I could help others as well. :P
Yeah you're right we can together change the world. :P
I like the way you think things by the way.. Keep in touch... :)
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